Wednesday, December 28, 2011

The "In Between" Time

It's a bit strange but in the past, I've pretty much considered the holidays over after Christmas. I never have been much of a New Years celebrator and so the day after Christmas, the decorations starting coming down and I was done.  But, this year, I have been a little reluctant to let go of the season. I still enjoy lighting the tree in the early morning and in the evening. Since the last of the Christmas leftovers have been consumed today I will feel that the season has come to an end. Either way, I probably won't take down the decorations until New Years Day or maybe shortly before. 

It was a good Christmas, better than I anticipated. I was very much into the spirit of the season early this year.  But plans that I had decided on 2 years ago were not to be and that made me feel disappointed and, I admit, a bit cheated.  The hospice organization I worked for had a hard and fast rule that you were not allowed to take an extended time for days off at Christmas. That meant that unless you could make a quick 2 day trip, it was pretty difficult to spend Christmas with out-of-state family.  Therefore, I had emphatically stated that this Christmas since I was retired, I would be spending with one of my kids. For lots of reasons though, this wasn't possible.

This Christmas was quiet - just Mom and me, Christmas Eve with our big dinner and then riding around see the Christmas light displays in the neighborhood. Even Christmas Day at my brother's which usually was busy and noisy with people popping in and out, was quiet. It turned out to be a very nice, relaxing Christmas where I could turn my attention to her. It was not the "big family-lots of grandchildren" time that I had originally planned. but as it turned out was just what we needed.

I've included a few photos here.

Mandy with one of her Christmas toys.


Mom and Mandy


A close up of the tree.

Wishing you all a very Happy New Year!




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7 comments:

Elizabeth said...

Sometimes those quite Christmas's are just what we need! We celebrated Christmas Eve Day at my house,only time everyone could be here. So my Christmas morning was very quite,different but enjoyable!
Happy New Year to you, your Mom and Mandy!

Denise said...

Christmas isn't over until New Years Day for me ! When I was little and at home, new years eve was a fun night with my dad and brothers and brother-in-laws (6 total) going outside just before midnight and then stepping back in to the house as the clock chimed 12, it's called 'first footing' and my Dad was always the first one to step back in, then he'd kiss my Mam and wish her happy new year and then hug and kiss all the rest of us ladies/girls :-)

I'll be at my neighbors this year for a 70's themed party!
Glad you and Mom enjoyed your Christmas
x x x

Monica said...

The Lord knows what we need when we need it. We also had a quiet Christmas. Not as many family showed up as we thought and it was very relaxing...just what we needed! Happy New Year Melanie!

Darylynn said...

Hi Melanie! Mandy looks like she enjoyed Christmas! :) I always consider Christmas lasting thru New Year's Day. We don't go out on NY's Eve ever! Too many drunks and Jeff used to work a lot on that night so I'm used to ringing in the New Year on TV. :) Hope 2012 is a great year for you!

Susan said...

Hi Melanie, I take my thing down when I am ready. Some years it is a few days after Christmas and some days it is after the New Year. Once we had our tree up until Feb! I am in no hurry. I have a lot and I hate to put it away. We will see. Thanks for sharing pics of your mom. I will spend a quiet NY with my dad. Hubby goes to sleep early. Have a great weekend. Hugs

Bee Jay said...

Thanks for sharing your photos Melanie. It's good to put faces to names - looks like Mandy had a great Christmas too. Happy New Year with blessings to you!

Marge said...

Wishing you bountiful blessings in 2012. Hugz!